So You Wanna Marry Your Childhood Sweetheart...But They're Your Cousin? A Guide to Pennsylvania's Love Laws
Ah, Pennsylvania. Land of liberty bells, cheesesteaks, and...strict first-cousin marriage laws? That's right, folks. Unlike your favorite reality TV show plotlines, Pennsylvania isn't exactly down with cousin smooches (unless they're, you know, friendly on the cheek kind). But fear not, lovebirds (not literally, because that would be weird), this post will navigate the sometimes-confusing legalities of first-cousin marriage in the Keystone State.
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| Can First Cousins Marry In Pennsylvania |
Can You Say "I Do" to Your Favorite Playmate from Kindergarten?
Nope. Buckle up, because Pennsylvania law says absolutely not to first-cousin marriages. Title 23 of the Pennsylvania Consolidated Statutes lays it out plain and simple: you and your childhood crush who just happens to share a grandparent with you cannot legally tie the knot.
But What About Those Weekend Trips to New Jersey?
Hold on there, Romeo and Juliet (because, again, cousin marriage). While Pennsylvania might not be a fan of these unions, things get a little tricky when Jersey Shore tans and out-of-state ceremonies get involved. Pennsylvania might recognize a first-cousin marriage performed in a state where it's legal, as long as it doesn't violate "public policy." That's lawyer talk for "it doesn't seem totally outrageous."
Tip: Make mental notes as you go.
Here's the catch: This isn't guaranteed. Courts can get involved, and things might get messier than a cheese whiz spill at a Phillies game. So, best to avoid the marital mambo with your cousin altogether.
So, What are My Options, Besides Eloping to Vegas (which is Also Frowned Upon)?
Glad you asked! Here are some (legal) alternatives:
QuickTip: Read again with fresh eyes.
- Expand your dating pool: There's a whole world out there, people!
- Channel your inner hopeless romantic into writing a historical novel: Plenty of star-crossed cousin lovers in those!
- Focus on that family bond: First cousins make awesome confidantes, cheerleaders, and partners-in-crime (the non-marrying kind, of course).
Remember: Love is grand, but following the law is even grander (it keeps you out of jail, for one).
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FAQ: First-Cousin Marriage in Pennsylvania Edition
How to know if you and your significant other are first cousins?
Easy! If you share a grandparent, you're first cousins.
QuickTip: Focus on what feels most relevant.
How to convince your family that marrying your first cousin is a good idea?
We strongly advise against this course of action.
How to find love in Pennsylvania (without accidentally dating a relative)?
Dating apps, social events, that cute barista at your favorite coffee shop – the possibilities are endless!
QuickTip: Highlight useful points as you read.
How to explain Pennsylvania's first-cousin marriage laws to your out-of-state friends?
Just say "it's a Pennsylvania thing" and move on.
How to get over your heartbreak of not being able to marry your first cousin?
Ice cream, rom-coms, and retail therapy are all excellent options.
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