Hitching Up in PA: From Keystone State to "I Do"
So you've found your lobster, your peanut butter to your jelly, your pierogi to your...well, another pierogi (because let's be honest, can you really have too many?). Congratulations! Now you're ready to tie the knot and officially become Pennsylvanian royalty (or at least a married couple). But before the confetti flies and the cake gets devoured, there's a little hurdle to jump: getting hitched the legal way.
Fear not, lovebirds! This guide will take you through the process of getting married in Pennsylvania with all the ease of a perfectly seasoned scrapple.
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The License to Thrill (or Get Married)
The first step on your marital marathon is obtaining a marriage license. Think of it as your VIP pass to wedded bliss. Here's how to snag this golden ticket:
Double Date at the Courthouse: This isn't prom, folks. You and your partner-in-crime (soon to be partner-in-life) need to appear together at your local Register of Wills, marriage license bureau, or county clerk's office. No sneaking in your best friend to fill in for Uncle Steve who couldn't make it.
ID Check: Just like entering a club (but hopefully with a longer-lasting commitment), you'll need to show some valid ID. Driver's licenses, passports, or state IDs are all welcome.
Parental Decoder Ring: This might be a doozy. Be prepared to answer questions about your parents' full names, birthdates, birthplaces, and even their marital status (were they ever polka-dancing sweethearts themselves?).
The "Divorced Do Over" Fee: If either of you has been married before, you'll need to provide a certified copy of a divorce decree or death certificate of your former spouse. There might also be an additional fee, but hey, think of it as an investment in your happily ever after.
Money Talks: Every county has its own fee for a marriage license, so be sure to check with your local office beforehand. Cash, credit card, carrier pigeons trained in monetary delivery – whatever works for you!
Important Note: There's a mandatory three-day waiting period after you apply before you can actually get your hands on the license. So plan accordingly – those save-the-dates aren't going to write themselves (unless you have a particularly enthusiastic squirrel with a calligraphy pen).
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The Ceremony: From Chapels to Courtrooms
Now that you're a licensed-to-wedding couple, it's time to choose your happily ever after setting!
Church Bells or Courthouse Steps? Pennsylvania allows for both religious and civil ceremonies. Want to exchange vows under the stained-glass gaze of a historic church? Go for it! Prefer a more low-key affair officiated by a judge? The courthouse doors are swinging open for you.
Officially Official: If you're opting for a religious ceremony, make sure your officiant is registered with the state to solemnize marriages. Civil ceremonies require an authorized official like a magistrate or district justice. Don't worry, they won't make you wear a powdered wig (probably).
Pro Tip: Book your officiant and venue well in advance, especially during peak wedding seasons (looking at you, fall foliage enthusiasts).
Happily Ever After FAQ
How to make an appointment for a marriage license?
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Contact your local marriage license office. Some counties allow online appointments, while others may require a phone call.
How long is a marriage license valid for in Pennsylvania?
A marriage license is only valid for 60 days from the date it's issued. So don't wait too long to schedule your ceremony!
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How much does it cost to get married in Pennsylvania?
The cost varies depending on the county and officiant fees. Expect to pay around $80 for the marriage license itself.
Can I get married in Pennsylvania if I live out of state?
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Yes, you can! As long as you obtain a Pennsylvania marriage license, you can get married in the state regardless of your residency.
What if I don't speak English?
Some counties allow an independent translator to accompany you to your marriage license appointment. Be sure to check with your local office for their specific requirements.
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