So You Became an Accidental Executor: Settling a New York Estate Without a Will (Cue Dramatic Music)
Let's face it, inheriting stuff is pretty sweet. Free furniture? Score! But what happens when you inherit the not-so-fun responsibility of settling an estate, and the dearly departed didn't leave a will? Well, buckle up, buttercup, because you've just been thrust into the hilarious (and occasionally frustrating) world of intestacy law in New York.
| How Do I Settle An Estate Without A Will In New York | 
Intestacy? What's that? (Don't worry, it's not a contagious disease)
Intestacy is a fancy way of saying "Uh oh, there's no will!" When someone dies without a will, the state swoops in and says, "Hold on there, partner! We gotta figure out where this stuff goes." This is where things get interesting, because New York has a whole set of rules about who gets what, depending on your family tree.
Side note: If this whole situation has you rethinking your own lack of a will, good on you! Just sayin'.
QuickTip: If you skimmed, go back for detail.
Okay, so who gets the grandma china and the slightly creepy porcelain cat collection? (The Fun Part... Maybe)
New York has a handy-dandy hierarchy for doling out inheritances. First in line is your spouse. They get a cool $50,000 plus half of everything else. If there are kiddos (or step-kiddos you raised like your own), they split the rest. Things get more complex if there are grandkids, parents, siblings, or that weird uncle who showed up once with a parrot. Spoiler alert: The parrot probably doesn't get anything.
Pro Tip: This is where a good lawyer can be your best friend. They can help you navigate the legalese and family drama (because let's be honest, there's usually some).
Tip: Reread key phrases to strengthen memory.
Alright, alright, I get it. How do I become the official estate settler person? (Welcome to Adminstrator-ville)
Since there's no will, you'll need to be appointed as the administrator by the Surrogate's Court. This basically means you're in charge of everything: finding assets, paying debts, and making sure everyone gets their fair share of grandma's porcelain cats. Fun fact: There can be more than one administrator, so if you have siblings who also want to play executor, you can all share the, ahem, joy.
This sounds like a full-time job! Is there a way out of this mess? (Maybe, Maybe Not)
There are a couple of ways to escape the administrator role. If the estate is small (think under $3,000), you can file for a simplified administration process. OR You can convince someone else to take on the responsibility. Just be prepared for some serious negotiation tactics (bribes of slightly creepy porcelain cats not recommended).
Tip: Highlight what feels important.
How To FAQs:
1. How to Know if I Need to Settle an Estate?
  If you were named as a beneficiary and there's no will, you might be on the hook.
2. How to Find Out Who Gets What?
  A lawyer can help you decipher the intestacy laws and who inherits what.
Tip: Skim once, study twice.
3. How to Avoid Probate Court?
  For small estates, there might be a simplified administration process.
4. How to Get Out of Being an Administrator?
  If the estate is small, convince someone else to take the reins.
5. How to Keep My Sanity During This Process?
  Lawyers, humor, and copious amounts of caffeine are your friends.