So You Want to Become a Distinguished Do-Not-Resuscitate-ee in New York?
Let's face it, nobody wants to be resuscitated against their will. It's like that awkward moment when your friend insists on dragging you back to karaoke after you've already belted out three off-key ballads. This guide will illuminate the path to becoming a certified DNR rockstar (figuratively speaking, of course) in the great state of New York.
Doc Talk: The Crucial Physician Confab
First things first, you gotta chat with your favorite medical maven, a.k.a. your doctor. This isn't a casual chit-chat about the weather. Be prepared to discuss your end-of-life wishes in detail. Don't worry, they're used to it (hopefully).
Side note: This might be a good time to break out the good jokes. A little humor can lighten the mood, but avoid puns about kicking the bucket – too soon!
Once you've explored your wishes with your doctor, they'll whip out the official Do-Not-Resuscitate (DNR) Order form (think of it like your backstage pass to peaceful goodbyes). They'll sign it, sealing the deal.
Not in the Hospital? No Sweat!
Let's say you prefer the comfort of your own home (and who wouldn't?). No problem! You can still get a DNR for outside the hospital setting. Just follow the same steps – chat with your doctor, get the form signed, and bada bing, bada boom, DNR superhero!
Important note: Make sure this fancy form is easily accessible. Think fridge magnet, framed on the nightstand, or tattooed on your forehead (though the latter might raise some eyebrows at the grocery store).
DNR Done Right: The Power of the Proxy
What if you're ever unable to speak for yourself? That's where your trusty health care proxy swoops in. This superhero (usually a close friend or family member) will make medical decisions on your behalf based on your wishes. Make sure you have this conversation with your chosen proxy – you don't want them winging it when it matters most!
Pro tip: Having a lawyer review your health care proxy paperwork is a wise move.
Frequently Asked Do-Not-Resuscitate Inquiries:
How to talk to my doctor about a DNR?
Be upfront and honest about your wishes. The more information you provide, the better your doctor can understand your needs.
How long does a DNR last?
A DNR needs to be reviewed by your doctor every 90 days, but it remains valid unless revoked.
How can I get a DNR form?
Your doctor will have the official form, but you can also find one online from the New York State Department of Health [New York State Department of Health non hospital DNR ON health.ny.gov].
What if I change my mind about having a DNR?
No worries! You can revoke your DNR at any time, just discuss it with your doctor.
Can I get a DNR if I'm under 18?
In New York, someone over 18 needs to make DNR decisions. However, you can still have discussions with your doctor about your wishes.
