Hitching Up in PA: From Keystone State Sweethearts to Officially Wedded Wildcats (Yes, We Went There)
So you've found your lobster, your peanut butter to your jelly, your pierogi to your...well, another pierogi (because let's be honest, can you really have too many?). Congratulations! Now you want to make it official and tie the knot in the great state of Pennsylvania. But before you rush off to get matching bedazzled sweatpants (we're not judging, just sayin'), there are a few hoops to jump through. Fear not, lovebirds, because this guide will have you waltzing down the aisle smoother than a cheesesteak whiz wit.
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Passport to "I Do": The Marriage License Lowdown
First things first, you'll need a marriage license. Think of it as your VIP pass to wedded bliss. You can snag one at your local Register of Wills, marriage license bureau, or county clerk's office. Both of you gotta show up in person, looking presentable (no pajamas, please), and armed with some goodies:
- Photo ID: Gotta prove you're the real deal, not some random acquaintance with a hankering for pierogies (although, who wouldn't?).
- Social Security numbers: Just the numbers, folks, not your actual card (unless you're feeling extra fancy).
- Parental info: Dust off those memory banks and be ready to spill the beans on your parents' full names, birth dates, and birthplaces.
- Previous marriage rodeo: If either of you has been down the aisle before, you'll need to show proof things are officially finito (divorce certificate or death certificate of your ex).
There's usually a fee involved, so be sure to check with your county beforehand. Tip: avoid wedding week jitters by applying for the license at least a few weeks before the ceremony. There might be a mandatory waiting period, so don't leave it to the last minute (unless you're into that whole Vegas elopement vibe, which, hey, no judgment).
The Officiant: Who Gets to Pronounce You Husband and Wife (or Wife and Wife, or Husband and Husband... You Get the Idea)
Now, you need someone to officiate the ceremony. Think of them as your verbal ringmaster, the one who makes it all official. Here are your options:
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- The classic cleric: A religious official like a priest, rabbi, or imam can do the honors if they're authorized to perform marriages in Pennsylvania.
- The justice of the peace: These legal eagles have the power to pronounce you married in a civil ceremony.
- The friend with a flair for the dramatic: Surprise! Pennsylvania allows self-uniting marriages. This means a qualified friend or relative (who has gone through some online training) can be your officiant. Just remember, choose wisely - you wouldn't want your best friend Steve, who once accidentally set the toaster on fire, to be the one messing up the vows.
The Big Day: Sealing the Deal with a (Hopefully Not Sweaty) Kiss
The ceremony itself can be as big or small, fancy or funky as you like. Just make sure your officiant follows the script (or at least the gist of it) and that both of you sign the marriage license after the "I do's."
Don't forget to return the signed license to the issuing office within the timeframe they specify. This is what makes it official with the state, so don't lose it under the dance floor (been there, done that, not a good look).
FAQ: Your Burning Questions Answered (Probably)
How to apply for a marriage license online?
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While some counties allow online applications, it's not universal in Pennsylvania. Check with your local office to see if it's an option.
How long does a marriage license last?
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In PA, your marriage license is valid for 60 days from the date it's issued. So get hitched before it turns into a pumpkin (or, you know, a stale pretzel).
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How much does a marriage license cost?
The fee varies by county, so contact your local office for the exact amount.
How do I get a replacement marriage license if I lose it?
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Most counties offer replacement licenses for a small fee. Contact your issuing office for details.
Can I get married outside of Pennsylvania with a PA marriage license?
Nope, your PA license is only good for weddings within the state. Check the marriage license requirements for the state where you want to get married.
There you have it, lovebirds! Now you're armed
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