Tipping the Doorman: A Delicate Balance
So, you've finally made it to the Big Apple. Congrats! You're about to experience the concrete jungle where dreams are made (and rents are astronomical). But before you dive headfirst into the world of pizza slices and endless walking, there's one crucial aspect of NYC life you need to master: tipping the doorman.
The Art of Tipping: A Brief Overview
Tipping in New York is like ordering a bagel with everything – it’s expected, and there are a million variations. But let’s focus on our friendly neighborhood doorman. This person is your gatekeeper to the city, your package receiver, and sometimes, your confidant. So, how much do you tip them?
The short answer is: it depends. It depends on how often you use the building, how much they help you, and how generous you're feeling. But let's break it down.
Tipping 101: The Basics
- Holiday Tips: This is the big one. Expect to tip anywhere from $50 to $200 per doorman during the holiday season. This is a big chunk of change, but remember, they're working hard to make your life easier.
- Occasional Tips: If you order a lot of packages, or if they go above and beyond (like finding you a cab in the rain), a small tip is appreciated. Think $5-$10.
- Moving Day: Your doorman is basically your personal sherpa on moving day. A tip of $20-$50 per person is standard.
The Fine Print: Factors to Consider
- Building Size: Smaller buildings might expect slightly higher tips, as the doorman likely wears more hats.
- Service Level: If your doorman is particularly helpful or goes out of their way, feel free to tip more.
- Your Budget: Let's be real, not everyone can afford to drop a hundred bucks on every doorman. It’s okay to tip what you can afford.
How Not to Be That Guy
- Don't be stingy. A few bucks can go a long way.
- Don't forget about holidays. It's a tradition for a reason.
- Don't be a jerk. Your doorman is a human, not a vending machine. Treat them with respect.
Remember: Tipping is a way to show appreciation for good service. It's not mandatory, but it's definitely appreciated.
How-To Tips for Tipping
- How to calculate a holiday tip: A good starting point is $100 per doorman. Adjust based on building size and service.
- How to tip for occasional help: A simple "thank you" and a $5 bill usually does the trick.
- How to handle moving day: Prepare cash tips for each doorman involved in the move.
- How to say thank you: A sincere "thank you" can go a long way, even without a tip.
- How to determine the right amount: Use your best judgment based on the level of service you receive.
