You're Kidding Me, Right? It's Obituary Time?
So, your loved one has kicked the bucket, shuffled off this mortal coil, or, to put it bluntly, is six feet under. And now you're tasked with penning their life story for the Baltimore Sun? Don't worry, we’ve all been there (or at least, we will be).
The Obituary: A Brief History of Mortality
Before we dive into the nitty-gritty of placing an obituary, let's take a moment to appreciate the art form itself. Obituaries are like tiny, biographical time capsules, a snapshot of a life condensed into a few hundred words. They're also a great way to subtly brag about your deceased relative's accomplishments without coming off as a total narcissist.
Getting Down to Business: Placing the Obituary
Alright, enough with the morbid humor. Let's talk logistics.
- Option 1: DIY Obituary: If you're feeling particularly ambitious (or masochistic), you can write the obituary yourself. This gives you complete control over the content, but it also requires a lot of time and effort. Plus, let's be honest, most of us aren't professional writers.
- Option 2: Hire a Professional: If you're short on time or writing skills, consider hiring a professional obituary writer. They can help you craft a beautiful and touching tribute to your loved one. Just be prepared to shell out some extra cash.
What to Include (and What to Leave Out)
Once you've decided who's writing the obituary, it's time to start gathering information. Here's a quick rundown of what to include:
- Basic Information: Full name, birth and death dates, age, place of birth and residence.
- Survived By: Immediate family members, including spouses, children, grandchildren, siblings, and parents.
- Accomplishments: Jobs, hobbies, memberships, awards, and other notable achievements.
- Personal Details: Funny stories, quirky habits, and beloved pets.
- Services: Funeral arrangements, visitation hours, and memorial information.
And here's a tip: avoid clichés like "loving husband" or "devoted mother." We know they were loving and devoted. Let's get creative!
Submitting the Obituary
Once your obituary is written and proofread, it's time to submit it to the Baltimore Sun. You can usually do this online or by phone. Be prepared to provide payment information, as obituaries typically come with a fee.
Important: Double-check all the details before submitting. Mistakes can be embarrassing (and expensive to correct).
How to Navigate the Obituary Process with Minimal Tears
We know losing a loved one is tough, and dealing with the obituary can feel like one more thing on an already overwhelming to-do list. But remember, you're not alone. There are plenty of resources available to help you through this process.
How to choose a photo for the obituary? Opt for a clear, high-resolution image that captures your loved one's personality.How to write a heartfelt obituary? Focus on celebrating your loved one's life rather than dwelling on their death.How to deal with difficult family members during the obituary process? Try to stay calm and collected, and remember that everyone is grieving in their own way.How to cope with the emotional toll of writing an obituary? Take breaks, talk to friends and family, and seek professional help if needed.How to find the obituary after it's published? Check the Baltimore Sun's website or newspaper archives.
Remember, the obituary is a chance to honor your loved one's memory. Take your time, be honest, and don't be afraid to add a touch of humor if it feels right.
Rest in peace to anyone who needs it.