Common Law Marriage in California: A Love Story (That Isn't)
So, you've been living with your partner for what feels like a century, sharing everything from toothbrushes to existential crises. You've probably had the "are we married?" talk at least once (or twelve), and maybe even joked about being common-law spouses. Well, let's burst that bubble: California doesn't recognize common law marriage.
It's Like a Bad Rom-Com Plot
Imagine a world where you could accidentally get married by just, like, existing together for a long time. Sounds dreamy, right? Wrong. California is all, "Nope, not happening." It's like the universe's way of saying, "Adulting is hard, so let's make it even harder by adding unnecessary paperwork."
But Wait, There's a Twist!
Okay, so you can't accidentally stumble into matrimony, but there's a tiny loophole. If you were in a state that does recognize common law marriage (looking at you, Texas) and then moved to California, your marriage is still valid. It's like bringing your exotic pet to a state where it's technically illegal but everyone just pretends it's a cat.
Don't Be a Common Law Fool
Just because you can't accidentally get married doesn't mean you should ignore the legal implications of living together. You might want to consider a domestic partnership or a good old-fashioned wedding. Or, you know, just keep doing your thing and hope for the best.
Remember: Love is great, but paperwork is often necessary.
How to... Common Law Marriage FAQs
- How to get married in California: You need a license, an officiant, and two witnesses. It's really not that complicated.
- How to protect your rights as an unmarried partner in California: Look into domestic partnerships or create legal agreements outlining property and financial responsibilities.
- How to deal with the disappointment of not being accidentally married: Ice cream, Netflix, and a good cry.
- How to avoid being in a common law marriage in California: Don't move to a state that recognizes it and then move back. It's not rocket science.
- How to find a good lawyer if you need one: Check online reviews, ask for recommendations, and make sure they specialize in family law.