DNR: The Not-So-Fun, But Important Paperwork
So, you're thinking about a DNR. It's a big deal, we get it. Like, really big. It's basically a way of saying, "Hey world, if things go south, please don't try to bring me back. I'm good, thanks." But here's the burning question on everyone's lips (or at least, it should be): does this thing need a fancy stamp from a notary? Let's dive in.
Notary or Not, That Is the Question
Short answer: it depends.
Out-of-Hospital DNR (OOH-DNR): If you're talking about the kind you fill out to keep in your wallet or on your fridge, you've got two options:
- Two witnesses: Find two adults who aren't related to you, aren't getting a piece of your estate, and aren't involved in your medical care. They need to watch you sign the form and then add their own signatures.
- Notary: Skip the witness drama and just get a notary to stamp your signature.
In-Hospital DNR: Things get a bit more complicated here. Laws change, rules change, and honestly, it's a headache. Your best bet is to talk to your doctor or hospital. They'll know the exact requirements.
Why All the Fuss About Witnesses or a Notary?
You might be wondering, "Why can't I just scribble my name on a napkin and call it a day?" Well, dear reader, the law likes its paperwork in order. It's to make sure that your wishes are clear and that nobody's trying to pull a fast one. So, while it might seem like overkill, it's actually a good thing.
Tips for Your DNR Adventure
- Talk to your loved ones: This isn't just about you. It affects the people who care about you. Let them know your wishes.
- Keep a copy: Don't lose that DNR! Make copies and give them to your doctor, family, and anyone else who might need to see it.
- Review regularly: Life changes. Your wishes might change too. Review your DNR every now and then to make sure it still reflects your desires.
FAQs: DNR and Notary Nuts and Bolts
How to choose between two witnesses or a notary for my OOH-DNR?
- It's up to you! If you prefer the convenience of a notary, go for it. But if you have two reliable friends or family members who are willing to witness your signature, that works too.
How to find a notary?
- Notaries can be found at banks, credit unions, and some government offices. You can also search online for a mobile notary service.
How to complete the OOH-DNR form correctly?
- Follow the instructions on the form carefully. Make sure all required information is filled out accurately and completely.
How to make sure my DNR wishes are followed?
- Talk to your healthcare providers about your DNR and make sure they have a copy. You can also give copies to your family and friends.
How often should I review my DNR?
- It's a good idea to review your DNR at least once a year, or whenever there's a significant change in your health or personal circumstances.